As venture capitalists become more purpose-driven, businesses need to be aware of the traits they expect to see in founders they see a future with.

Unfortunately, it can be hard to separate these things out, especially when anxious thoughts tell you that situations or reactions are your fault when actually they’re not.

They might say things like, "Everything always happens to me," or "You don't understand what I'm going through." This tactic is designed to evoke sympathy and shift attention away from their actions.

They have a hectic energy, mostly because they don't know how to center themselves or stay grounded. Incompetent people lead with chaos, while brilliant people move through the world with ease.